Being Expressive or remain silent??

Hi Friends,

I hope you have admired my previous post and the purpose of being here, please do send your feedbacks..waiting anxiously!!

So here i am again with a subject that often creates a dilemma in my mind and i would like to share my thoughts with you all. Expression i.e. to express yourself, rather your inner-self, maybe in the form of speech or action, with truthfulness is something that actually glorifies your life. It makes you a "straightforward" person, modest and more honest. you actually get that courage to put forward your thoughts. you get rid of all your guilts, and never even think about "Why didn't i speak up that time?". If you really feel your point has weight, never keep it inside you. Thats the power of expression!!. But on the contrary, it might turn out rude sometimes. People might start portraying you as a very impolite, adamant sort of a person.

So, what i think, sometimes silence plays a more important role than just delivering whatever comes in mind. "Blabber-mouth" ya thats the word! there's a very vast distinction in being expressive and being blabber mouthed. And what separates the two is the Power of silence. Silence gives you the strength of achieving your will. It can put a stop to an argument from getting hotter. Now I think it really helps because In my life there have been many situations when i thought "Why did i say so? can't i keep my mouth shut" or "If i had not said so, things would have been different". So thats the time i realized my mistakes and felt guilty for it. Just holding back my tongue or my actions would have turned the things round.

But the dilemma is about, if i would have kept quite would have that portrayed my honesty?

But later on i realized it has nothing to do with the honesty, it is all about not hurting the emotions of the other person, and for me emotions of others are really a main concern.

Its like something i read a few days back 90/10 principle...it says 10% of a situation is not under our control while 90% of it can be controlled by our behavior. Its upto us to decide whether we need to keep Silent or Express ourselves. Thats the way i think now, suffered a lot because of this. Being silent or being expressive at a wrong instant of time can give a pain that is unbearable.. But how to really judge when to or not to speak up. Both Silence and expression have their equal role as well as timing.

All i know is someone said it true when they said something like "Its never too late nor too early to realize your mistakes and your responsibilities, it is always the right time!!!"...

Wish to seek your suggestions as well as responses..till then buh-bye!!